Thursday, September 6, 2012
What to teach your littles about God
(My Littles)
As a fairly new mom, my oldest is only 3, I've been in a constant state of learning-as-we-go. But there is also another aspect to being a mother, which is TEACHING as you go as well! And just as you spend time teaching how to brush little teeth, go potty and clean up toys...we need to be teaching God's Word and principles.
Some of the first principles that we can teach to our little ones are:
1. Jesus love you
2. He is good
3. God is watching over you
How do I do this?
Well, I start out telling my little Sydney, "Do you know that Jesus loves you? And did you know that Jesus is good?" She is usually quiet as she listens.
And then I remind her that God is always with her and watching her, so she doesn't have to be scared. She usually replies with the sweetest, "okay, Mommy."
And that's it. Pretty simple and easy. But it is setting the the foundation of God's principles in her little heart.
We also pray before our meals, a simple prayer like, "Heavenly Father, thank you for this food and bless it to our bodies. Amen." Now she doesn't always WANT to say a prayer, so Hubby and I still pray, modeling the proper behavior even if she isn't too interested. I know that in her little mind, it was always hold the truth that Mommy and Daddy asked for God's blessing over our meals.
And one of the most important jobs of a parent speaking God's blessing over our children. Usually when I have one of my precious little ones in my arms, I speak God's blessing over them. Here's a simple prayer example, but feel free to dive into the Scriptures and find every good blessing and speak it over your child. There is no area too "small" not to pray over!
Our Father in Heaven, I ask you to bless this child with favor with You and with people, that he/she will know you at a young age and his/her heart will always be bent toward you. Please guide this child in the way of wisdom and lead her/him along straight paths (Proverbs 4:11). I ask that no weapon formed against her/him shall prosper, and that every tongue raised against them will be silenced (Isaiah 54:17). And that he/she will renew his/her mind by reading your Word, so that she/he would be able to test and approve what Your will is--Your good, pleasing and perfect will (Romans 12:2). And by the wounds of Jesus, we he/she will have healing (Isaiah 53:5). Father, that your Word be a lamp to her/his feet, and a light to her/his path (Psalm 119:105). I ask this in the name of Yeshua, the Name above every name. Amen.
Every day you have with the child God entrusted you to raise well, is a day you can teach and train them up in the way of the Lord. Everything they encounter in the world will attempt to pry them away from Truth, but the ground work you lay now will be the foundation to which they will return.
Proverbs 22:6
Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.
I'm praying for all of you who read this blog, if you are hoping to be a parent one day, are a new parent, an old one or even a grand one! Ha ha ha!
That the importance of your job is not lost, but instead highlighted. And that God gives you His wisdom and understanding to raise your children or grandchildren well--for this is the will of God.
In Him, By Him and For Him,
Tiffany
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
Amen sister!!! Your daughters are beautiful! Children are the most precious blessing from God. Having a strong foundation of faith is so important for the children and I'm glad to see that you're already teaching yours!!
ReplyDelete<3 Great points! I'm so proud of myself for being a young "new" mother of a 2 year old and having my daughter already know these things. It's SO important we start from the beginning. And some parents want to- but wouldn't even think that they can 'introduce' God this early. Thank you for a beautiful post!
ReplyDeleteWise words Tiffany, Amen!! I don't have kids yet, but by God's grace I am getting engaged soon so the next steps are wedding and babies God willing! :) This is very good advice my friend, and actually I am praying now for my future kids, if God will bless me (us) with one or more.
ReplyDeleteI am so thankful to God for using you <3 You're a blessing sister xxx
I'm not a mom, but I am a big sister. I hope that I can be a good example of Jesus' love to my younger siblings as I help my mom and dad teach them these things :) Thank you for sharing that prayer, I'm praying it for them right now. God Bless you and your family Tiffany!
ReplyDeleteYou are not able to comprehend what an enormous blessing you are to both your parents, and siblings, just by your precious heart WANTING to be a good example. Your family is truly very 'fortunate'. I wish I had a daughter like you!!!
DeleteYour daughters are so beautiful !! I'm not a mom, but this is a very good advice and I hope God will bless me in the near future with kids. God bless your family!
ReplyDeleteAs always my sister in Him you have amazing words for us!!! and the prayer you say over your children I would do it too!!!! it's so wonderful and just what a parent want for a child!!! thanks, thanks, a lot!!!! you girls are just GORGEOUS as you!!!
ReplyDeleteI love you!!!
Celeste R.
Baby Audrey!!! This is the first time I've seen her! She looks just like your husband?? Oh, Sydney looks so happy with her baby! ( ◠‿◠ ) What a precious, precious picture!!!
ReplyDeleteAnd thank you for the example of a blessing. I am ashamed that that is not something I do with any regularity. Thank you for the nudge.
I used to work in my church's preschool before I moved to another city, and it was so amazing to see how powerful God's presence is in their lives at this age--for children who have grown up in a Christian home. I had a five-year-old who, upon a homeless man coming into church asking for prayer, went up with a group of men to pray with that man--just out of love. It's so incredible how God uses children too. =)
ReplyDeleteOne of the little prayers that we taught our preschoolers when they got hurt is this: "Pain go. Healing flow, in Jesus' name, Amen!"
God bless!
Wonderful! This is great! I'm not a parent but this makes me grateful for my parents and how the raised me and trained me up in the way that I should go. I love your prayer, Tiffany, I think it's a great one. Your little ones are darling, and I love to see a great mother and father raise up little children in the way they should go.
ReplyDeleteLike I said I'm not a parent but I do know (or so I've heard, ha ha) that little children really are listening and paying attention to the "little things." So it's my understanding that a parent's job is to start at a young age. Thank you, Tiffany! This gave me a new found grateful heart for my parents and how they raised me!
Tiffany, I totally agree with your post. My daughters are 21 & 18, when they were little I taught them similar things as you do to yours. Sometimes we may not be able to see the results right away, but I can tell you that all these little seeds we've planted in their little hearts will blossom sooner or later.
ReplyDeleteRecently my 21 years old shared in our Worship Team meeting about even since they were little, we had this practice to pray "Thank you God for provide us a parking space." right after we've parked our car. She said nowadays, she will sometimes say the same prayer after she found a parking space in a busy car park - she had her driver licence for awhile already, but I never knew about that until that meeting.
Parenting is a work-in-progress project (even when our kids have grown old), we just need to continue to guide them differently yet still under God's grace and love them the same (just like how my 80+ years old parents still treat me as the youngest in the family from time to time!!!).
May God continue to bless us, so we can bless others. If you have time, please drop by my blog.
Sis. in Christ,
GiGi from Sydney Australia
Dear Tiffany,
ReplyDeleteI work at a school and I feel like I am doing a terrible job. I often get frustrated, angry etc. with the kids and I have to admit that I have not been treating them as I would want to be treated. Please pray for Jesus to mercifully bless me and change me and for Him to help me.
Thank you.
Love this post Tif! We pray before we start to eat to...I learn them that we ask for the blessing of the food and for other people who are hungry in this world. Before they go to bed we pray to and the funny thing is...well it's not funny...but more a beautiful blessing from the Lord. My little son he's 7 years old and he had nightmares every night. So we changed our prayers and ask God if He could be with Him all night and that He keeps the nightmares away. From that moment my son never had a nightmare again. Such a blessing! God is so good and my son heart is getting stronger because he sees now that God is real. He says Jesus protects me Mamma! Isn't that beautiful. So I explained him that some time bad things happen to us, but God wants us to ask in prayer and He will give. Just amazing! God bless you Tif. Hope everything is allright with you! Love you!!!! The biggest hugs from my family to yours. xxx
ReplyDeleteI'm almost 3 months preggers!!! And I LOVED reading your post. I can't wait to start praying over my baby and teach him/her the Lord's ways. Thanks Tiffany. Love you so much! Xo huge hugsss
ReplyDeleteNina Ozfuruncu <3
Free Social Media Marketing where Every thing will be Free, Facebook Likes, Twitter Followers, Twitter Tweets, Twitter Re-Tweets, Twitter Favorites, Google Plus Followers, StumbleUpon Followers, Youtube Views, Youtube Likes, Youtube Subsribes, Pinterest Followers, Pinterest Likes, Pinterest PinIt, Free Website Visitors.
ReplyDeleteJust Join now and Free Increase your Social Media Networks.
GetLikeFast.com